Following Femma has been eye opening and extremely helpful to my growth as a person. Her posts on vanity and self-care have made me somewhat able to embrace myself as a PERSON. Not as a hodgepodge of identities. And I realized today and yesterday while I was out shopping with a friend that some of her posts about tough femmes and being femme have allowed me to say “I’m pansexual, I like working with my hands and playing sports, I love  baking, I swear like a sailor, but damn can I rock a pair of heels and a dress (as long as it has pockets for my cellphone)” So thanks to BAMFS like Femma am able to say “I have to get shit done today, I think I’ll wear a dress, heels, and red lipstick” Knowing her on tumblr is an honor.